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The one with being born different

Diesen Beitrag habe ich nicht für dich übersetzt, weil ich dafür keine deutschen Worte finde, die mir gefallen – wenn du fragen zum Verständnis hast, kannst du mir gern schreiben.

It has become a common term to say „I feel born in the wrong body.“

I think it’s wonderful, that people who feel this way can express their feelings with this term.

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I also think, that it is highly important for everyone who feels like „all people should go their own way and all different kinds of humans must be accepted“ to go out there and stand PROUD with your opinion.

People with an opinion like that just ROCK!! You are gorgeous!!! Don’t let anyone EVER tell you that it is NOT OKAY to stand by someone.

Acceptance is all we need to give, to make someone feel wanted in this world! It’s a really strong thing and it should not be kept for yourself!

You accept people for who they are? It’s wonderful! Go tell them!! It will make them so much stronger to fight for themselves and you will be empowered by that good feeling which makes you stronger to fight your own fears and difficulties in life.

It’s not important to be like somebody it’s just important to accept them even if the both of you are completely different!

Because we ALL are born different from another.

It’s just media, religion, politics, society and other powerful things out there telling us for a long time, that some differences like skin colour and sexuality are more important and „worse“ differences than someone liking ketchup and the other one liking mayonnaise.

But it’s exactly the same thing.

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Would you say you can’t live with someone that prefers a pink tooth brush over a blue one – because that’s just not normal?

Would you say you can’t eat on the same table with someone who wears grey underwear? You now think: „Well, I can’t even see that in that moment – so why would it matter anyway??“ True that.

Would you eat on the same table with that person if they said you can only eat together if you wear grey underwear, too? Probably not and that’s alright because acceptance does not mean that you have to do the things you accept. You don’t even have to agree with them!

But what’s the difference between someone wearing grey underwear and someone following a religion? Why do we compromise somebody for their religion if they don’t even try to make us believe their way of life?

That does NOT mean I think it’s a good idea to use religion for killing people, or hurt them or anything like that. It would make me really sad if someone would lay that into my words!! If you think that you should read the text AGAIN.

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I think people can feel „born wrong“ because of soooo many things, not just gender!

I often feel born in the wrong LANGUAGE.

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Do I have to like German best just because I am born a German?

I feel like I should have had English as my mother tongue.

For me, English has all the words I need to express my feelings. I feel it’s an easier language. A language that connects people on a different level. I also like that they don’t have something like our „Sie“. I think our „Sie“ is often used as a shield.

I respect people because they have real authority and because they earned that by what they can do, know are have already achieved.

Not because of the „Sie“.

I am using both languages.

I do respect both languages and every other one.

And I think we should handle EVERYTHING that way.

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And I am not perfect people! Actually I am FAR from perfect.

I DO forget that everything should be accepted the same sometimes!

I get mean sometimes. But it get’s less and less and I am working on that every day!

And if we all do, it will make a HUGHE difference!

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7 comments

  1. MATRJOSCHKA says:

    Sehr schöner Post! Ich bekomme so etwas oft von Freunden zu hören. Das macht mich unglaublich traurig. Jeder Mensch sollte so sein, wie er will! Weder die Gesellschaft, noch jemand anderes soll vorschreiben dürfen, wie ein Mensch zu sein hat. Ich muss da immer an den Song „Born this way“ von Lady Gaga denken. Sie trifft mit ihrem Text wirklich ins Schwarze und wenn man mal nicht mehr weiter weiß, sollte man sich den auf jeden Fall mal anhören. Danke für deinen lieben Kommentar! Habe mich wirklich gefreut.

    Beste Grüße und einen guten Wochenstart!

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  2. Phia says:

    WIrklich schön ausgedrückt! Ich finde es ja überraschend, dass so viele sich lieber in Englisch artikulieren möchten, und sich dabei wohler fühlen, als in Deutsch. Dabei hat Deutsch doch so viel mehr Wörter und Begriffe um Dinge und Gefühle zu beschreiben. Aber viele identifizieren sich vielleicht einfach nicht damit, ich weiß es nicht. Auf jeden Fall ein wunderbarer Post!
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  3. positiviphy says:

    Huhu liebe Phia, ich studiere Germanistik und das inzwischen im Master – es liegt also nicht daran, dass ich Deutsch nicht schön finde, aber es ist mir einfach irgendwie zu kühl. Auf Englisch lässt es sich für mich viel einfacher ausdrücken, was ich sagen möchte und damit auch wirklich andere zu erreichen. Ich finde Englisch glaube ich einfach viel emotionaler 🙂

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